Having fraternal twin sons leaves me being one very assuming father. I keep telling myself that these guys are just brothers that happened to be born on the same day. This is supposed to prevent me from being to quick to compare and judge. Something our singleton parents don't constantly deal with.
I am now more comfortable letting the kiddos be kiddos. Trying not to scrutinize whether I'm parenting them in different ways. And accepting it's fine if I am.